BismilLaahir Rahmaanir Raheem.
Our beloved Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and his family, said:
وَلَعْنُ الْمُؤْمِنِ كَقَتْلِهِ وَمَنْ رَمَى مُؤْمِنًا بِكُفْرٍ فَهُوَ كَقَتْلِهِ
Cursing a believer is like killing him and charging a believer with unbelief is like killing him. Sahih Bukhari 5754.
Abu Hurairah may Allah be pleased with him reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: لَا يَنْبَغِي لِصِدِّيقٍ َ لَعَّانًا
It is not befitting the truthful that they curse others. Sahih Muslim 2597.
Abdullah ibn Mas’ud said: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
لَيْسَ الْمُؤْمِنُ بِالطَّعَّانِ وَلَا اللَّعَّانِ وَلَا الْفَاحِشِ وَلَا الْبَذِيءِ
The believer does not taunt others, he does not curse others, he does not use profanity, and he does not abuse others. Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1977. From the above narrations, it’s clear that we must avoid cursing or abusing anyone but rather make dua for Allah to guide them to the rightful ways. Parents especially MUST avoid cursing their children regardless of their mistakes. Children on the other hand must avoid provoking our parents regardless of their shortcomings. To be continued in shaa Allaah. May Allah keep guiding us all and protect us from any satanic ways. Aameen.